Tucson Baby Shower

One of my best friends, we met in college at U of A (Terri) graciously offered to host us a baby shower in Tucson.  The main reason behind the shower out in Arizona was that two of my close friends are pregnant now with their second (one due in January and the other in February) along with a few others who would have a hard time making the trip to San Diego!  So even though with Steve's schedule we had to do the 6 hour (7 hours if you are pregnant) drive on Saturday and turn around and do the drive back on Sunday, it was worth every minute of it!

Since I never get to see Steve, being in a car for 14 hours out of the 2 days, was quality time!  I do not have a lot of pictures from the beautiful shower but it was so special and unique!  Kimmi (childhood best friend from Page) helped Terri host the event and it was so fun!  We got to play dress up with the adult co-ed cocktail baby shower theme, see Terri's new gorgeous home and play with her two year old son, Trent.  The shower started at 6 p.m. and I was greeted with one surprise after another... A Pumpkin Prego-a-tini, a creative tree drawn by her mother in law to be used as the guest book (Munchkin's family tree), banana cream cupcakes, and a poker tournament.  Each guest was asked to bring a package of diapers as a "buy in" to the Texas Hold Em poker tournament, which was a huge hit to say the least.  We actually had to stop the tournament to open gifts because it was going so well that it was not even close to being over when the shower end time was fast approaching! 

Munchkin made out like a bandit :) plenty of diapers to get started, everything from bottles to toys, to bath towels.  The star of the show was the baby's quilt and diaper planter my mother gave me.  My mother brought my baby's quilt, which she made when she was pregnant with me and then my great grandmother was given a diaper planter when my grandmother was born, she passed it on to my mother and now my mom was passing it onto me.  Amazing, the only people not crying as she told the story were the guys in the room! 

The poker tournament resumed and did not end until midnight, each person took turns leading but Steve was the winner in the end!  Those who could not make it, you were missed!!!  Kristen & Jason, Sarah & Eric, Julie & Kyle, Kimmi & Colin, Mamacita & Daddy #2, Mom & Dad, Grandma & Aunt Vickie, THANK YOU MUCH FOR COMING and for all of Munchkin's gifts!!!  Terri & Scott, thank you so much for hosting such an awesome night!!!

GOOD TIMES!  

21 Weeks

I was 19 years old when my mother first learned of my turtle tattoo, she wasn't thrilled but all my memories are of her saying she couldn't wait until I got pregnant because the turtle would get so stretched out that I would regret getting it someday. I assured her that I would have plenty of years to enjoy my little turtle before I would bring a baby into this world and sure enough, nearly 14 years later it is time to see this turtle grow! Along with my monthly belly bump pictures I will also take turtle bump pictures so that my mother does not miss out on any aspect of this pregnancy! :)


We had another doctor's appointment today! Every appointment is important but this one felt especially important since when we had the ultrasound the week before and the technician couldn't say a word. So in this appointment we would find out about my most recent blood work, results of all of our disability tests and is all the measurements on the ultrasound normal. GREAT news we are still going strong and healthy, all tests came back 100% perfect. What a great peace of mind! We are now more than half way through, which is unbelievable because this pregnancy is going SO fast! The heart beat was around 140 for the second time; strong and still the most beautiful sound in the world!

20 Weeks

FIVE MONTHS...The big ultrasound! This was another big moment for us as we have not seen the Munchkin since he or she was a little "bean" at 8 weeks. So many nerves, excitement, anticipation and joy filled our souls as we waited in the lobby. I was spoiled with a great weekend (my best friend Terri came to visit me to help me with the "practical" baby things I needed to plan for. She spoiled me with homemade pumpkin waffles, banana crème cake, tons of laughs and the loving support I truly needed)! The appointment was an hour long, we got to stare in admiration of our little one. Watching how he or she moved, the blood flow, the perfect mouth, it was all so AMAZING!


Everyone has asked us if we cried, we didn't, we couldn't, we were just in awwwww!  This picture is one of many but my favorite, if you look closely it is Munchkin's profile, the head on the left side, with an eye, little button nose and a mouth slightly open with his or her hand in the mouth! Unbelievable! I stare at these pictures for hours and still can't believe this miracle is inside me growing everyday! We had to turn away quite a bit because we both want to be surprised by Munchkin's gender...there is a very nice blonde ultrasound technician out there in the world that knows the sex of our baby and that is it...too funny that she is the only one who know since it is now put away in a secret file..  It was such a beautiful day; we could have watched our baby all day long!

18 Weeks

My first belly bump photo :) It seemed only fitting to take this on our four year anniversary! We were glowing knowing that this anniversary was super special, our lives about to change, and we can't wait! Well we can wait, in the sense that we really need this whole pregnancy for us to be ready for this little Munchkin!


Is it a girl or a boy? Who knows? Everyone has a guess but Steve and I just know that either a boy or a girl they will wear converse as one of their first pair of shoes :)

16 Weeks

FOUR MONTHS...This was another milestone for us! Since everything was perfect at our first appointment (8 weeks) we were told that our next appointment wasn't until 16 weeks. This felt like forever because we would hear the sweet sound of the baby but then not again for two more months. I wanted to have that confirmation that the baby was okay, still there, it for some reason still seemed so unreal. Our appointment though was amazing. We got to meet our Mid-Wife, she came highly recommended and we really liked her. All the blood work came back 100% perfect and then again...we got to hear the heart beat! The room silent, Steve clinching my hand with excitement and just shock spread across both of our faces. Already in LOVE!


One could say it is because Steve is working full time and going to Paramedic School full time, but we say he is having a "phantom pregnancy!" He has the mood swings, gaining weight, has his cravings, and he started making plans for the nursery (not me)!!!  I am having a dream pregnancy, now into my second trimester, they say I am through the woods...which is amazing since everything thus far has been so EASY! So easy that is impossible to not be in LOVE with being pregnant!

12 Weeks

THREE MONTHS...Waiting for the three month mark felt like FOREVER! Everyone says you are safe to share the BIG news at three months so we couldn't wait. Everyday felt like I was living a lie, all the decisions being made at work, future plans etc all based around a little miracle (now called Munchkin) that not everyone knew about...  It felt so real to finally announce it at the office, and be able to share it with everyone that asked "how are things." It was such big news that it was all I thought about so Steve and I both couldn't help but have the feeling of yelling it from the roof tops!


I was so fortunate though to have an easy first trimester so far. Besides falling asleep at work while talking, lol, I really had no symptoms. I didn't have any illness, not even the slightest nausea. I had a little fatigue but I really just pushed through it and stayed really active and that made a huge difference. I didn't have any crazy cravings, nor had I put on any weight at this point. We had the memory of the heart beat we heard a month earlier to hold onto...

8 Weeks

TWO MONTHS...We had to wait nearly two weeks before we could see a doctor. Although we took three pregnancy tests it was still the final confirmation we desperatly wanted. Since we learned of the pregnancy at roughly 6 weeks, our first doctor's appointment was at 8 weeks. Look at this little bean...so small yet already had changed our lives so much. Hearing the heart beat for the first time was most magical thing I have ever heard. I think I was in total shock up until this photo was taken, although Steve was glowing from the moment the test said positive, it just took me more time to realize this miracle was REAL!

"When did you know?"

It took us time to fall back into reality after spending seven days eating fine dining quality food three times and sometimes even late night room service, drank every fancy foo foo drink you can imagine, excursions including rappelling, mini scooter tour of Cozumel, swam with dolphins, zip lines, cave snorkeling, met two amazing friends for life (Pete & Stephanie), partied with our favorite bartenders from last time (Oscar & Cesar), visited the Tulum ruins and took naps under palapas falling asleep to the sounds of the waves... We came back to San Diego though glowing, thankful and thrilled to be back to our beautiful new home and we knew we still had a few weeks before the craziness of Steve's school would start. Shortly after we returned to our normal schedule though, I started having crazy sleep walking episodes and unique sleep positions that left Steve laughing and wondering each day what I would do next. One night for example I scared Steve when he found me in the dark in our living room in the middle of the night talking to our turtle. I joked one night about being pregnant with all these crazy dreams but we both thought it wasn't possible to be pregnant so quickly. I was actually so busy with work that I didn't even think about it, it wasn't until I was working one day, conducting a counseling session with one of my students when I started to fall asleep. No matter what I did I could barely keep my eyes open, then it happened...I fell asleep but better yet, I fell asleep while talking. It was the strangest thing, I lost a few seconds and then came back talking about nonsense and confused. After careful recovery with the student, I went straight into my colleagues office to tell her the bizarre encounter I just had. Still in denial until Kate said with certainty "you are pregnant." So "how did you find out you were pregnant?" Yeah, I can say it was when I fell asleep while talking...